"The best heart in marriage is the heart of service" Relationship coach, Solomon Buchi shares advice for fans
Popular Nigerian Life coach, Solomon Buchi has shared some advice for his fans via his social media platform. Solomon Buchi revealed the heart of service is the best heart to have in a marriage. He shared his point of view even though he has only been married for a short while.
Solomon Buchi is a writer, Relationship coach, life coach and Public speaker. He is known for sharing relationship quotes and advises on his X (twitter) platform. He got married to his partner, Arike Adeola earlier this year. The news of their wedding came out in February 2023.
He revealed that its best for those who are married or intending to get married to have a heart of service in their marriages. He shared that such a heart would be willing to do anything to ensure the home is stable
In his words "I have been married for a short time, and I can tell you with all sobriety, avoid anyone who easily swears: “I’ll never wash plate as a man in marriage.” “I’ll never wake up to cook for my husband.” Avoid them like a plague. The best heart in marriage is the heart of service. The heart that is willing to do every possible good to make the home stable. A heart that isn’t traumatized into seeing service as slavery. Not a heart of perfection, but one that would rather say “I can’t do it, but let me try…” not “I’ll never do it.”
He shared that people should place service above gender roles in marriage.
He also added "It doesn’t matter if you’re a strong fan of gender roles. Just make sure you marry someone whose heart for service is bigger than their allegiance to gender roles, because sometimes, those roles won’t be enough, but service will always work. Service and human decency"
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Popular Nigerian Life coach, Solomon Buchi has shared some advice for his fans via his social media platform. Solomon Buchi revealed the heart of service is the best heart to have in a marriage. He shared his point of view even though he has only been married for a short while.
Solomon Buchi is a writer, Relationship coach, life coach and Public speaker. He is known for sharing relationship quotes and advises on his X (twitter) platform. He got married to his partner, Arike Adeola earlier this year. The news of their wedding came out in February 2023.
He revealed that its best for those who are married or intending to get married to have a heart of service in their marriages. He shared that such a heart would be willing to do anything to ensure the home is stable
In his words "I have been married for a short time, and I can tell you with all sobriety, avoid anyone who easily swears: “I’ll never wash plate as a man in marriage.” “I’ll never wake up to cook for my husband.” Avoid them like a plague. The best heart in marriage is the heart of service. The heart that is willing to do every possible good to make the home stable. A heart that isn’t traumatized into seeing service as slavery. Not a heart of perfection, but one that would rather say “I can’t do it, but let me try…” not “I’ll never do it.”
He shared that people should place service above gender roles in marriage.
He also added "It doesn’t matter if you’re a strong fan of gender roles. Just make sure you marry someone whose heart for service is bigger than their allegiance to gender roles, because sometimes, those roles won’t be enough, but service will always work. Service and human decency"
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