"Don't beat yourself up if a man cheats on you" Basketmouth's Ex-wife reveals
Basketmouth's Ex-wife, Elsie Okpocha, has shared some words of advice for Nigerian women. She has advised them not to beat themselves up if they realise that their husbands are cheating on them. According to her, the woman shouldn't have to blame herself for such an action. She shared this on her Instagram page recently. She posted this on Sunday, January 7 2024. Elsie is Basketmouth's Ex-wife. The couple split up just last year, 2023.
Basketmouth is a popular Nigerian Comedian and actor. His real name is Bright Okpocha, but he is known Popularly as Basketmouth. Elsie, his Ex-wife has stated that a man cheating has nothing to do with the woman. She revealed that a woman can be beautiful, sexy, the best cook, rich and intelligent, and the husband will eventually still cheat on her. She told women to stop blaming themselves and prioritise their happiness. They shouldn't blame themselves for something someone else did.
In her words “This is to us women yeah? you need to understand here that when a man cheats, 80% of the time, it has absolutely nothing to do with you, so don’t you ever beat yourself up again? You’ll be beautiful, you will know how to make all his favourite dishes, you will be sexy as hell, and be intelligent and smart and he will still cheat. So it’s not you, it is never you. Don’t go cry in your room, or starving yourself or be sad. Stop all that nonsense, don’t go and blame yourself for something someone else has decided to do, DONT! Don’t blame yourself for something someone else decides to do. But I am not here to tell you what to do, if at the point, you decide on what you wanna do, make sure your happiness comes first. And like I always say, marry a kind man, cos when you do, if and when he decides to cheat unfortunately, he knows to consider you in the sense that while he’s doing his shit, he will never let you find out, because he knows it will hurt you, he will never disrespect you, he will never put you in a situation where you are constantly humiliated or embarrassed. So again to you women, remember it’s not you, infact, it’s always never you.”
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Basketmouth's Ex-wife, Elsie Okpocha, has shared some words of advice for Nigerian women. She has advised them not to beat themselves up if they realise that their husbands are cheating on them. According to her, the woman shouldn't have to blame herself for such an action. She shared this on her Instagram page recently. She posted this on Sunday, January 7 2024. Elsie is Basketmouth's Ex-wife. The couple split up just last year, 2023.
Basketmouth is a popular Nigerian Comedian and actor. His real name is Bright Okpocha, but he is known Popularly as Basketmouth. Elsie, his Ex-wife has stated that a man cheating has nothing to do with the woman. She revealed that a woman can be beautiful, sexy, the best cook, rich and intelligent, and the husband will eventually still cheat on her. She told women to stop blaming themselves and prioritise their happiness. They shouldn't blame themselves for something someone else did.
In her words “This is to us women yeah? you need to understand here that when a man cheats, 80% of the time, it has absolutely nothing to do with you, so don’t you ever beat yourself up again? You’ll be beautiful, you will know how to make all his favourite dishes, you will be sexy as hell, and be intelligent and smart and he will still cheat. So it’s not you, it is never you. Don’t go cry in your room, or starving yourself or be sad. Stop all that nonsense, don’t go and blame yourself for something someone else has decided to do, DONT! Don’t blame yourself for something someone else decides to do. But I am not here to tell you what to do, if at the point, you decide on what you wanna do, make sure your happiness comes first. And like I always say, marry a kind man, cos when you do, if and when he decides to cheat unfortunately, he knows to consider you in the sense that while he’s doing his shit, he will never let you find out, because he knows it will hurt you, he will never disrespect you, he will never put you in a situation where you are constantly humiliated or embarrassed. So again to you women, remember it’s not you, infact, it’s always never you.”
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